Saturday, September 02, 2006
couples couples couples, why is it that you guys feel uneasy, uncomfortable and awkward in each others presence?? are you intimidated or are you just trying to act cool and pretend that the other person's not around. its weird to find 2 persons, who are so crazy in love with each other, chatting over the phone for 4 solid hours till the wee hours of the morning, dreaming bout that other person half the time ur alone and messaging them till they're bill goes over the roof, but dare not face each other in person. it might be you not accepting reality or maybe ur just being too sensitive tothe way the person react and talk.zhili you may think that i created this post after ur most recent post, you've hit the jackpot dude. it indeed is for you. i do not know the source of the problem, neither do i know the present situation nor the feelings and people involved, but one i do know for sure that at the end of the day, its all gonna turn out fine. everything will be alright. just back away for the time being, give the both of you guys some space and maybe reflect a little bout ur past words and actions you've ever said or done. but dont brood over the bad stuff, it'll only kill you off one day. then when you feel the right time has come, slowly, step-by-step talk things through. if there's some tension in the atmosphere, take a step back, drop the subject and wait for a better opportunity. from ur recent post, we dont need to be rocket scientists to conclude that there's a problem between the both of you. problems come and test, they dont destroy, but its the actions you take toward the problem that either revives or destroys. alot is at stake i know for sure, but dont give up with out a fight, dont let go without saying one last goodbye. its gonna haunt you. i'm in no position to judge that's for sure, but pardon me if it has ever offended you in any sense. its the best way i can help as a friend.
Time will heal everything, it's gonna be alright..
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by flamboyance @ Saturday, September 02, 2006